27. I Place My Hope on the Water

One Friday in early October 2019, I was sitting in my office near the University of Virginia when my sister Missy called. “Have you seen an email from Joe?” Well, no, I was working, or at least I was sitting at my desk talking…not checking my personal email. “Look now,” she said. “I’ll call youContinue reading “27. I Place My Hope on the Water”

22. Nuts from the Same Tree

My sister Missy has always been the gold standard for beauty in our family. Even today, nearly eighty, she is a beautiful woman. Carrying the same genes as Missy could be difficult for Maureen and me. We were always comparing ourselves to her and feeling as though we came up short.  With her hair perfectlyContinue reading “22. Nuts from the Same Tree”

21. Things that go bump in the night

Whenever a thunderstorm came to our little patch of earth, my mother gathered up her little ones. We would run upstairs to the sleeping porch at the back of the second floor to watch the sky. Every time we saw lightning tear across the sky, she’d say, Okay, start counting. Here it comes! Several secondsContinue reading “21. Things that go bump in the night”

20. When John met Kate again, or Part 2

When John left for college in Boston, our lives went in different directions although we both ended up in Washington. John gave up his musical aspirations after Berklee and went into the family business: journalism. I studied poetry at the University of Maryland, fully intending to live out my days in a garret. Hungry, IContinue reading “20. When John met Kate again, or Part 2”

19. All Roads Lead to Pittsburgh

Last month we went to Pittsburgh to visit my stepdaughter Katie and her husband Dave. They moved to the ‘Burgh during the pandemic, and we hadn’t seen them for more than a year. It was a sweet reunion with lots of smiles and happy discoveries. We loved seeing their new home and walking through theContinue reading “19. All Roads Lead to Pittsburgh”

18. If this isn’t nice, what is?

For Mother’s Day our family received the perfect gift. Our daughter Maeve, with the help of her husband Bo, gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. I think we’re evolutionarily disposed to think our children — and grandchildren — are the most amazing little beings to touch down on earth, but this one really is.Continue reading “18. If this isn’t nice, what is?”

17. When John Met Kate

or How I met your… When I first saw John, I was sitting on the grass in the Bradens’ backyard at a party with way too many teenagers and not one adult. (It always struck me that the man who wrote Eight Is Enough left his eight children, many of them teenagers, alone for days,Continue reading “17. When John Met Kate”

16. The Sky Is Not the Limit

I’ve heard you talk about your brother Kevin for the last two years, Kate, and I never knew he was a quadriplegic, said my friend Sandy. How can that be? Well, I guess that’s not what comes to mind when I think of Kevin. It seems like Kevin has spent his life, post-injury, making theContinue reading “16. The Sky Is Not the Limit”

15. A Lifelong Alliance

In the summer of 1960, a family moved in two doors down from us. That afternoon, I watched as the movers unloaded a huge moving van. From my vantage point on the front porch, I saw a little girl of about my size climbing the front steps to the house. I walked inside and foundContinue reading “15. A Lifelong Alliance”

14. Lawyers, Guns, & Money

Sneaking out of the house on Jocelyn Street was easy; sneaking back in required strength and agility. Joe, Kevin, and Brian agree that getting out the third floor window and dropping down to the porch roof wasn’t too difficult. The house was built in 1910, and the wooden gutters were built into the roof itself.Continue reading “14. Lawyers, Guns, & Money”